What Being Called an “Outsider” Taught Me About Community
When I first started attending local meetings and getting involved here in Henry County, I was focused on learning—how things worked, who was involved, and how decisions were being made.
But when I ran for office, I learned something I didn’t expect.
I was considered an “outsider.”
At first, that didn’t sit well with me. I’ve lived in several places over the past 25 years, and I had never been called that before. It made me pause and reflect on what that really meant.
But as I thought about it more, I realized something important.
Being an outsider isn’t a weakness, it’s a perspective.
I’m originally from a small town with a population of around 18,000 people. I still have family there, and I visit every year. Because of that, I’ve had the opportunity to experience different communities, different leadership styles, and different approaches to growth and connection.
So when I moved to Henry County in 2021, I didn’t just arrive—I observed.
I paid attention to how the city operates.
I listened during meetings.
I watched how leaders engaged with the community.
And what I found is something worth recognizing.
We have people here who truly care.
We have leaders who show up, stay engaged, and continue to serve—even when faced with criticism. We have a county manager who is forward-thinking and committed to raising the standard. And we have community spaces and programs that reflect intentionality and inclusion.
But like any community, there is also room for growth.
There are leaders who are less engaged. There are opportunities for greater transparency, connection, and resident involvement.
That’s the balance.
And maybe that’s exactly why perspective matters.
This weekend, I attended a Henry County Parks & Recreation spring event with my grandson, and it reminded me of why I chose to get involved in the first place.
It wasn’t just an event—it was an experience designed with care.
From activities for toddlers to thoughtful accommodations for children with sensory needs, it was clear that this community is making an effort to serve everyone and that matters, especially for those who are new.
Because when you’re new to a place, you’re not just learning the roads—you’re learning where you fit.
Sometimes, that takes time.
Yet here’s what I want every new resident to understand:
You don’t have to wait to belong.
Your perspective matters.
Your voice matters.
Your presence contributes to what this community is becoming.
Being an outsider simply means you bring something different to the table and in a growing community like ours, that’s not a disadvantage.
It’s an opportunity.
Let’s keep building a better McDonough, together. 
Montina Young Fraiser
Community & Business Advocate
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An informed community is a powerful community.